Having a Strong Identity is Just Not Enough
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Today, there is something I am going to discuss that is holding a lot of guys back from improving this area of their life. There are a lot of guys I know who aren't good with women, and they limit themselves from meeting women saying, "I don't have a strong identity."
For me, I don't just limit myself to one identity but have multi-identities I use that different women would stereotype as attractive through my fashion and my hobbies and interests, but I still need perform that identity's role through my "sociability" to get the girl.
Sociability is your competence, skills, and mojos used in social interactions. Be honest with yourself, "If you solely just have a strong identity without having to work at it like some magical worldly power, do you honestly women will be attracted to you?" Having that strong identity is a title, which consciously gives you permission you act in a way to live up to that identity's role, but that doesn't mean you will play that role congruently.
Just because you are given the description of a doctor, doesn't necessary mean you are an effective doctor. In reality, it works the other way around. You were given the title of a doctor because you went through school and devoted insurmountable hours learning how to be a doctor until you became really good at it.
The justification of saying that I only need to have a strong identity, then I can start deserving and get good with women is does not work in your favor. Let go and allow yourself get the girl. What you really need is to start taking action and develop the skills, instead of waiting to claim that identity or for it to just accidentally fall into your lap. That is why it's important to have the skills under your belt to substantiate that identity...then you will effortlessly communicate that to the women you're trying to get.
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